Colossians 3 vrs 1-17 (A good blueprint for a Christian Couple seeking a Godly Relationship)

As i am now in a relationship with a beautiful and a caring girl. I believe that me and Leanne's relationship has to have Christ at the very center. Though at times that is very difficult and sometimes life can throw things at you when we least expect it. We have been going out only four months, but we both agree it seems longer, and we both mean that it a positive way.

Our minister has told us to be very open to each other and to talk about issues that arise in our journey together. We are also to pray about it and to bring our problems to the throne of God. There is times though i struggle with this issue, and i would forget to lay it at his feet.

We are both coming to terms with our pasts, even more so for Leanne. She is a wonderful person, she thinks more about other people and their needs than her own. God is at work in her life, and she is one person that keeps on saying God needs to be at the center of my life.

I have alot to do with life, and one of the things that i am trying to do is learning to trust her. I do trust her, but in past relationships with christian girls they mistreated that trust, our if you like we could use the word "abused" that trust.

I love Leanne and i always try to right by her and i also try to treat her in the way i want to be treated.

Colossians 3 vr 1-17 speaks yes to the church, but i also see it speaking to christian couples who are trying to build their relationship up on the foundation of Gods law for christian living.

Vrs 12-14 are a good blueprint for the christian couple who wanna be more Christ-like in their approach to become a loving and a caring couple. Who love and respect each other in everything they do and share. These verses are known as the fruits of the spirit and are the building blocks for us who are meant to be Kingdom workers for the building up for christs church through the power of the gospel.

But these verses are very powerful and meaningful for a christian couple like me and leanne. They have great value for the very survival of our relationship. If this is off God and we believe it is, then i hope and pray he will bless this relationship and God willing, i know folks this is early days to say this, but if it is in Gods awesome plan i hope and pray that i can marry leanne.

Please pray for us to seek Gods wisdom and his blessing in this journey together.

Peace and blessings